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The Five Respect Needs of Men


the 5 respect needs of men

“A man’s highest need is to feel respect, whereas a woman’s highest need is to feel loved.” {Tweet This} Marriage expert and researcher Shaunti Feldhahn came to that conclusion after a scientific study into what men really need. But she first came to that realization while on a singles retreat before she got married.

“This retreat speaker said the same thing that I said in the book and asked the men on the survey—which is to recognize that, for women, the highest need in general is to feel loved and cherished. But the highest need for a man is to feel his wife’s respect and trust and admiration and honor.”

Shaunti says we can lavish lots of love on our husbands and that’s great, but, as she says, “if we don’t also show that we respect them—and maybe criticize them in public or question their decisions all the time—they’re going to feel disrespected, and then they won’t feel loved.”

Do the words respect husband go together in your house? Look at these 5 respect needs of men.

1. Respect his judgment

A man deeply needs the woman in his life to respect his knowledge, opinions, and decisions—what I would call his judgment… many men wished their mate wouldn’t question their knowledge or argue with their decisions all the time. {Tweet This} It’s a touchy (and difficult) thing in these liberated days, but what it really comes down to is their need for us to defer to them sometimes.

Several men confessed that they felt like their opinions and decisions were actively valued in every area of their lives except at home. Some men felt that their comrades at work trusted their judgment more than their own wives did. Also, while a man’s partners or colleagues will rarely tell him what to do (they ask him or collaborate on the decision instead), more than one wife has made the mistake of ordering her husband around like one of the kids.

2. Respect his abilities

Another strong theme that emerged was that men want—even need—to figure things out for themselves. And if they can, they feel like they have conquered something and are affirmed as men. For some reason, spending hours figuring out how to put together the new DVD player is fun. Problem is, we want to help them—and guess how they interpret that? You got it: distrust. (It’s a wonder any relationships work and that the human race didn’t die out millennia ago!) And, of course, our attention is not all benign. Sometimes we truly don’t have confidence that our man can figure something out on his own.

The little things equal one big clue

We don’t realize that the act of forcing ourselves to trust our men in little things means so much to them, but it does. It’s not a big deal to us, so we don’t get that it’s a big deal to them. We don’t get that our responses to these little choices to trust or not trust—or, at least, act like we do!—are interpreted as signs of our overall trust and respect for them as men.

A man might think of it like this: If she doesn’t trust me in something as small as finding my way along a road, why would she trust me in something important, like being a good breadwinner or a good father? If she doesn’t respect me in this small thing, she probably doesn’t really respect me at all.

The next time your husband stubbornly drives in circles, ask yourself what is more important—being on time to the party or his feeling trusted. No contest.

3. Respect in communication

Women hold an incredible power in the way we communicate with our men (both husbands and sons) to build them up or to tear them down, to encourage or to exasperate. Some things just push a man’s buttons. This goes beyond what we say—such as questioning a man’s judgment or his abilities—and into how we say it (and where we say it, which is the subject of the next section).

The disconnect

In my interviews, a large number of men said something like this: When my wife says something disrespectful, I often think, I can’t believe she doesn’t know how that makes me feel! I had to reassure these men over and over that their wives probably didn’t mean to disrespect them and were likely just clueless.

Let me give you several common examples of how a man might hear something negative where the woman never intended it.

4. Respect in public

Now we come to one of the most important points of the book. There appears to be an epidemic of public disrespect for men, and the biggest culprit is not the television, movies, or other media, but the women who are supposed to love their men most.

The most fragile thing on the planet

Dozens of men told me how painful it is when their wives criticize them in public, put them down, or even question their judgment in front of others. One man on the survey said that the one thing he wished he could tell his wife was that “at a minimum, she should be supportive of me in public.” That wish was repeated dozens of times on the survey—it was one of the strongest themes that emerged.

Consider this statement, which I have heard (in essence) from many men: “My wife says things about me in public that she considers teasing. I consider them torture.”

Be respectful even when he’s absent

Having seen how important public respect is to men (it is almost impossible to overstate), I have become incredibly sensitive to how often we might talk negatively about them behind their backs. The effects are much the same even when a man isn’t present: The women’s disrespect of her husband becomes even more deeply embedded as she harps on it, and those in listening range may begin to feel the same!

5. Respect in our assumptions

Unfortunately, in one area men have every right to read something into what we say—and that is when we have jumped to negative conclusions about them. When we really examine our communication, we’ll be astounded at how often it assumes something bad about the man we love. See if any of these assumptions ring a bell.

We assume, “He needs to be reminded”

To us, repeatedly asking “Have you done it yet?” is probably not a big deal. But inherent in the question is our assumption that the guy needs the reminder—that he is either incapable of remembering on his own or that he remembers just fine but needs our prodding to do the job. What they are accurately hearing is, “I don’t trust you.”

Just realize that his reason for not doing it may be different from yours. Remember, half the men on the survey indicated that sometimes they just have different priorities. Or, they could just be unable to handle one more thing. One man with a stressful job noted that he sometimes feels like a computer that will crash if he tries to load one more thing onto it. For him, procrastinating on something his wife wants him to do at home is his warning sign that he will emotionally crash is he tries it.

Shaunti has more great insight into the respect needs of men. This article on how to read your husband’s “disrespect barometer” is great.

So, is it difficult or easy for you to show respect to your husband?

Source: For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn

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  • Coppélia

    Thank you for these clear reminders, Shaunti! I can see a few that I can try to apply with my hubby today. Help us, Lord, to be more loving, caring, respectful wives.

  • HelpPlease

    I dont know how to deal with the disrespect i feel i get from my wife. We have been together for 2 years and we’ve had this same problem ove 10 times. She goes out with friends, oversatys and ends up coming home after 3 am, drunk. All theese times i start contacting her around midnight. From the first contact, i am being controlling, that’s her answer. I loose it. She comes home and its a brawl with an intoxicated wife. She justifies her choices by hinting i am responsible. Last time she did it, i told her that was the last time. She just did it again last night. Same thing, im controlling and it’s somehow my fault. She will not acknowledge she messed up, trying to get an apology is impossible. ¿What can i do? I talked about divorce last night, definately not something i want but if this doesn’t change for good, its over.

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  • Krystal Mueller

    Love it!! Thanks Shaunti!

  • unannannan

    Wish I could show this to my wife. She treats me like a child all the time, it is worse when she does it in public. It is to the point the my teenage daughter has noticed it too. I try to include her in decisions and she” doesn’t care” but she makes all decisions without including me even on the information on what “the plan” is.

    At least after reading this I realize I am not crazy. Thanks

    • WeAreAllBroken

      Take the risk and forward it to her. I’m going to – and it is a risk.

      • unannannan

        Good luck brother. I would show her but……last night my opinions were shut down again. I should be on a 4 day fishing trip right now with a friend, it would have been the first one ever. But…. I needed to be here for the kids and to “help” her with things. Pointing out this article now will just make the house very hostile.

    • Lace

      I am a wife reading this, sent to me by my mother inlaw. Pray for God to open her heart to receive, then when you feel the time is right ask her if you two can read some on bible marriage together. Find something on how a wife needs to be shown love. Read them together and take more interest into how you can meet her needs as your wife. A book my husband and I read together is “Love and Respect”. May God bless your marriage, try to love her and give her what she needs, pray for her… and trust the rest to God…

      • unannannan

        Ahhh. I showed it too her and it was not good.

        I was upset with her the other day, but I kept my mouth shut and just kept cleaning the house. Later that day I found out that I was wrong for being upset, and that I actually had no right to be upset with her.

        So I showed her this site. That made things a lot worse. She told me that was exactly how I treat her all the time.

        So I asked her and my kids to write down the things that I do wrong…..stuff like the way I treat them, things i say to them..etc. But I also asked them to write down how I could correct those things. In other words, I wanted to know what they felt was the correct way for me to do things, or react to things. i wanted them on paper because I wanted proof. Three days now and i still don’t have a thing from any of them.

        • EL

          Repairing and getting back on the same page in relationships can be complicated. Make changes slowly, and mostly have faith it’ll work out. Best of Luck!

        • Emunah Ahv

          I am a wife and reading this “how to respect your husband” is hard for me because I do feel that allot of the things are warranted at the way that I am with him. However, what if its not? What if we are feeding off of each other? I am here to see how to fix myself before I try to fix him…which is exactly what I have been trying to do our whole marriage. I think that is what your wife needs to see in herself is that she needs to fix herself and start practicing some of these things, even as hard as it is for us women, for me. If I start changing the way I think about things, I think that he will treat me better in return. I feel as a women that I want to be respected just like he says he does and that it is important to me but I think that I am starting to understand that respect for a woman comes in the form of love, and love for a man comes in the form of respect. I think that I probably would have taken the “showing me this site” thing as my husband saying “look what you are doing wrong to me” and would have been put on the defensive. Instead, I am trying to seek out what I am doing wrong, even when I feel like I am not wrong. I know deep inside that it is both of us not loving, not respecting each other and I cant fix him if I dont fix myself. Take the log out of my own eye before I try to remove his splinter…kind of thing

    • Robert Graff

      look her sternly in her face and say : Woman have you lost your mind? then look away. do not speak to her…

  • Shaunti – Thanks for sharing your thoughts. This is very insightful.

  • Jasper

    Wish all young marriages would be required to take courses on such topics- i believe the divorce rate would be lower. Being in my 2nd marriage, these are the tools and truths that will make this marriage last. All of the above were at the core of my husbands first marriage failure. He felt like a child, a to-do man, a robot in his marriage with no respect, trust or being allowed to lead. I wont do that to him again.

  • shauna

    I agree with everything. I would just like to know is it disrespectful to ask your husband for help with something ONCE and then after a reasonable amount has passed with it undone… to do it myself? This is one of those gray areas where I don’t want to nag but things need to get done. Any suggestions?

    • unannannan

      I don’t think it is disrespectful. I know I do a poor job of communicating. Maybe it is the way which it is said, not what is said. I am NOT saying that you personally are doing it wrong. I will put it in a way I would like to here it from my wife.” Honey, could you get that for me? I really NEED YOU to do it.” That would make me feel important and not like a servant. This is just an example….I am not trying to tell you how to do it.

      • shauna

        I appreciate the input. Thank you. Wives need so much help in this area ( myself included). There are those of us who are trying and sometimes we just end up not know what to do, so you do nothing…then you fight the resulting bitterness that takes root. With God’s help I think we will find a way to do the dance gracefully. I appreciate so much when Men and Women are willing to have the discussion 🙂

    • zeke199

      Before taking action into your own hands, consider your own motives. Also, you & your husband need to have a “process meeting”, where you discuss your priorities, who should do which activities, when, and how regularly. This helps BOTH spouses have a schedule (just like what works at work!!) so things will get done without seeming like a perpetual stream of interruptions.

      Buy-in is key for BOTH spouses. Gentle reminders are MUCH BETTER than taking over the task for multiple reasons. See various examples in Scripture of how taking action can be destructive – Abraham/Sarah/Hagar & plenty others!

  • leahchristensen

    The example of him worrying about providing if we think he can’t even find his way to a place without getting lost is way off the mark! The two are entirely different things!
    I am blessed to be in a marriage where my husband and I respect each other’s abilities based on our individual strengths, and not on our gender roles.
    We have no problem building each other up in public and in private because between us, there is a lot to build up. Take right now, for example! He was in the mood to go somewhere, and do something. When I mentioned that I was really in the mod for something at the grocery store that would involve a cab ride for me (mobility issues!) he jumped on the bus, and away he went! Of course I do little thing like that for him all the time, and it’s great. We do what we can for the other out of love, not because we feel the genders nee different thing. We’re coming up to our 7th anniversary, and it feels like we just got married yesterday!

    • lace

      Im thankful to hear you have a blessed marriage and are meeting each others needs as husband and wife. I would point you to a book “love and respect”. God made men to need respect and women to need love, so that when married we go to the source (our husband, our wife) to learn what comes natural for them. Love comes natural for women, Respect comes natural for men. God made us different and its a beautiful thing. Talk with your husband on his thoughts, needs of respect, and you share the same on your needs and thoughts on showing love. May God continue to bless your marriage

  • edddie

    Some of the things in this article seem very condescending and sarcastic; almost passive aggressive. Typical i guess..

  • mr. man

    Why do women make something out of nothing

    • Diane

      It would help to know the issue in question, but here’s a start at some ideas: 1) Maybe it’s not really nothing; meaning maybe you are not being properly sensitive to why it might be, or might seem like, something. 2) Maybe there’s a history (either with you or someone else) of similar situations not being nothing. 3) The opposite happens frequently too; it’s not a one-way problem.

  • Diane

    For what it’s worth, while I agree that men legitimately have those needs, speaking for myself as a woman, I resonate with having a very strong need for all these as well. My husband does well with #4, but all too often falls short with the others and can be very hurtful about it. Sure, emotional closeness is important, but for me, without these elements of respect preceding it, that is unlikely to occur. Emotional security/intimacy is not a stand-alone condition. Respect is the pathway to it. And genuine sexual intimacy follows emotional intimacy. It does not work in reverse.

  • Rebecca

    I feel like I’m in the man in this situation because my guy constantly criticizes me and makes me feel stupid and incompetent. He even does it front of people. I don’t nag him or question his judgment, ever. My God, if I ever did that, it would be the end of the world! No, instead he constantly questions my judgement and assumes that I have no interest in helping out and blames me for withdrawing. How can a man not understand how hurtful this is? I feel like I need some respect!

  • adelaide sandoval

    What if it’s been weeks since the bunk bed has been fixed? And I have attempted to fix several times but I am not strong enough? I hate “reminding” him because then i feel like a child that is being disregarded. My sons slept on the floor for weeks. There’s other things that are put off for weeks…some that I have learned to do on my own. He could sit and watch Tv all weekend but a 10-20min fix I cannot get from him. I have to watch my tone which is incredibly tough after weeks have gone by 🙁

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    • ktownresident

      Call a handyman to come and fix it and be done with it.

  • Kaye

    I see so many of these articles about “How to treat your Husband with respect” and frankly I am getting quite annoyed. I do these things with my husband, I am very conscious of how I speak to him, about him, and how I subsequently treat him in all regards. I am a stay at home mom raising three little boys with very little help from my Husband. He is the breadwinner and thus he feels that he is not responsible for any other duties on the home front. He does not speak to me with respect and does not show any appreciation or even consideration for the amount of work that I do. I am always wrong or over reactive in his mind and every time I have a feeling of anger or unjust, he blames it on my monthly cycle (apparently there is no validity in anything I feel).Our older boys now speak to me as he does with zero respect. I do correct this and discipline as needed, but this is what they see from the male role model in there life, therefore I feel like I am fighting a losing battle. But, regardless of where I look for input, all I see is “Treat him like a King. Treat him with soft gloves. Don’t bruise his ego. Don’t make him feel like an inferior being.” What ever happened to “Treat others like you would want to be treated”. If I treated my husband the way that he treats me, I guarantee this marriage would be over. Apparently men don’t like to be treated like doormats, but it is a completely acceptable way for wives to be treated. It is even spoken as a way to improve a marriage FOR THE MAN. Hopefully I can teach my sons that there is a better way for their future wives.

    • MC

      Your guy is old school and hasn’t moved into the modern world when it comes to relationships. I know plenty of guys including my own father that take their wives for granted and treat them with disrespect. Sadly when a guy is like this he will never change because it is so ingrained in his make up. You can only do what you can do. Hate to say it but you picked the wrong type of man but then again so many woman do. But as is often the case most woman aren’t brave enough to up and leave and I get it. You have kids, he makes the money. My mother had the guts to walkout and make a new life. She suffered for a few years but in the end met a guy that treats her with the respect and admiration she deserved and craved for so long. I wish you the best Kaye.

    • annoymous

      I completely understand this! Many men have a double standard.. talk sweetly to me, be nice and polite….. and then they will treat you like a doormat! That said, I see some of the younger generation doing a better job….. except that I also see son’s of single mom’s like to be disrespectful to their mothers and blame them, talking down to them as though it is a macho thing to do.

      I just have turned off to the idea of dating, and when I tell men I dont want to date, they are quick to say they got kicked to the curb when there was nothing there to start with.

    • ktownresident

      Sounds like psychological abuse to me.

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  • Glory Fred

    GOD BLESS THE DAY I CAN BE-LIVE THIS WHAT DR.OGUMEN HAVE DO FOR MY LIFE

    Hello my name is GLORY FRED from USA, My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted you and after I explained you my problem. In just 3 days, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solaed our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr OGUMEN i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank you once again at ([email protected] ). in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is ([email protected] ).

  • Clara Williams

    i want to give thanks to my dr and i will always give thanks to DR OGUDUDU who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last week will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to DR OGUDUDU and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has gone for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive, him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email address [email protected]. or call +2348144368825 THANK YOU DR

  • Clara Williams

    i want to give thanks to my dr and i will always give thanks to DR OGUDUDU who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last week will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to DR OGUDUDU and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has gone for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive, him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email address [email protected]. or call +2348144368825 THANK YOU DR
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  • Clara Williams

    i want to give thanks to my dr and i will always give thanks to DR OGUDUDU who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last week will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to DR OGUDUDU and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has gone for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive, him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email address [email protected]. or call +2348144368825 THANK YOU DR
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  • RobertAlonso

    If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Obudun Magonata it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. ::He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Obudun Magonata was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is spiritsofobudunmagonata ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com ‘…

  • Fuller Tawanna

    I am Shannon by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address [email protected] , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr.OHIMAL. His email: [email protected]

  • RobertAlonso

    If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Obudun Magonata it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Obudun Magonata was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. _This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is spiritsofobudunmagonata ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com ~~~

  • Alonso Robert

    -_If your wondering how to regain the all you lost during your addiction mostly family and job, the first thing is to remember it my never happen! Even if you’re putting consistent effort into changing your way of thinking and living, that doesn’t necessarily mean every family member is going to be ready to dive in to a new relationship. Sometimes, a family’s trust has been unraveling over years and years. It won’t be rebuilt over night or at all.The best thing to do in early recovery is either to focus on living sober and healthy. Quitting drugs, or no longer drinking, isn’t sufficient change for the addict. Your entire perspective on life, patterns of thinking, and living habits also need to change Otherwise, you’re essentially the same addict or alcoholic, only without the substance or just contact this spell caster he has helped a lot of people get their lives back including me when all seem to be hopless he always shrine the light of remdeption and hope. He fix all problem and i know this because i am writing this from my personal experience.If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Obudun Magonata it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Obudun Magonata was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is spiritsofobudunmagonata ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com . I know you all know how to make use of this email because email have a standard format use it in that form-_

  • Eimear O’Sullivan

    When i met my husband then it crystal clear to me that he was the man of my dream. When i looked at him, i saw perfection. He was tall, respectful, looked at me like i was the only one on earth i mean words cannot describe that moment that is the day we met. It lives on here in my head. I know i was not blind and i know there was nothing really to make me suspect he also like the company of men as well as women. Yes i mean we were sexually active just like every other normal couple who are in love. It never seem like he was avoiding me when i want to have *** like he always comes up with excuse no he was just like every other man. I only got to know when i was two years into our marriage. The first year was healthy for us i mean we were happy and had our first child. It was my sister who caught him passionately kissing another man in his car after spending all night together in the movie theater. He told me he was going out with friends for a drink or two. I was hurt because he was not honest with me and also was cheating on me. Even before i knew, this thing he had going on started before we got married at least he was honest about that. Hadn’t been my sister, i would have been locked in the dark. I have nothing against same sex relationship but when you claim to love a woman and also want to be with a man it becomes a problem i mean you are either with one or the other. You can’t be married to me and expect me to shear you with another be it a woman or a man. We promise we will stay together just us and not us with some one else. I gave him an ultimatum it was either me or his male love i was hoping his love for me will make him pick me but no he ended our marriage simply before he could not pick. H wanted it all i wished i never made him choose then. I was in a traumatized i could not understand how he could be so selfish i mean we have a son together you don’t just walk out like that. I remember i even asked him to go ahead with relationship with his lover as long as he was here with me but then i realized i would be at the losing end in all ways. I was so much in love with him letting him go was not an option for me i mean i knew that if it wasn’t him it was going to me no other. After months of trying and searching with no success to find a way to make him see i am more important than his lover i came across a lot of comments on the internet of how a spell caster Obudun Magonata and how he has help a lot of individual with relationship and life problems. I was skeptical about it but i thought giving it a try would not kill me. What can i say, my experience with Obudun Magonata was real, honest i mean everything that was said about him was nothing but all true. I shared my problem with him that is how my husband ended our marriage because i was not OK with him have a male lover even when we were married and what i needed him to do for me. All i had to get was the materials needed to caster the spell that was going to get me my husband. I could only find one of the spell materials but he help me get the rest with the total estimated cost i sent to him for help. I don’t know how to explain what happen just after the spell process was concluded and made effective with the parcel he sent to me. I was like a fairy tale i mean i got my love back my family was whole again. My husband picked me he choose to be with me. It been more than six months now all i can see is a man loves and dedicate his self to me he goes every where with me aside work though yeah. Contact him here at spiritsofobudunmagonata”at””yahoo””dot””com” convert email address to the standard email format. Hope you all with similar problem get all help from Obudun Magonata also.

  • Iram Vielberth

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Great DR Samura for bringing back my husband who left me and the kids for almost three months within the period of 48hours Great DR Samura was able to bring him back to me.. i am very much greatful for restoring peace in my marital home i pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help you can reach him on his email address: [email protected]

  • Rosla Loveu

    May be someone out there knows what i am talking about and know how its like to be invisible mostly by the one person you are in love with. I was in love an unhappy married man.His marriage was going to limbo and i was the only one there for him. He only saw me as a friend but he was more than that to me. I wish i had the heart to tell him before the went ahead and got married then, may be he would never had be unhappy and may be we both would have been together. Yeah it turned out i was too much or a chicken. Though we are together now literally because of the spell Akpe Osilama a very powerful spell caster i must say helped me cast to make him love me just as i loved him. A lot of people may have different opinion as to if what is did is wrong or right but really, it do not matter because he was in pain and his life was falling to pieces and i was his friend who was in love with him. I knew he was going to be happy with me and he is now. For the first time in three years i have he really happy i mean he tells me every time how free he feels . We are perfect together and i know we are always going to be like this. This would not be the case if not for the spell Akpe Osilama helped me cast. All that was required of me were just the materials that was going to be used to prepare the spell and note Akpe Osilama does not do spells for money i wish i knew why but i do not. He told me that i should get the materials needed for the spell preparing he told me to get them myself and if i can’t find the materials all i had to do was send the total cost for it so he can help me. It wasn’t easy to get them but i found them but it took a lot form me i would advice against getting them yourself because there are not only hard to but also difficult to mail believe me. I am only writing this short article for those out there with problems similar to the one i had. If you want to contact him use this email its what i used chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast@(yahoo). com rewrite this email in the usual email standard form for use!!!!!

  • TEEYA SANDRA

    I CANT BELIVE THIS

    MY NAME IS TEEYA SANDRA FROM TEXAS

    I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called dr OGUMEN of( [email protected]) has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost family to me with his great spell, i was married to this man called James we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when i was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get he back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email ([email protected]) then you wont believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back and after a month i miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother a baby girl, thank you once again the great ABULU for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail ([email protected] )and he will also help you as well or call +2348112060028

  • Gelina Mattson

    We all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Akpe Osilama to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and don’t want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Akpe Osilama to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Akpe the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Akpe Osilama with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Akpe Osilama asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don’t know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Akpe Osilama was that he told me the out come of the election before the election date last year because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can’t give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email (chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast@ (yahoo). com) rewrite to usual email format if you are asked for material to do the spell don’t go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be.

  • Louise Damen

    How to restore a failing relationship Unlike the movies we see, every relationship will not always been happy forever. Something or factors are always there to drop the relationship you have given all. It may be due to dishonesty, failing to funding, lack of understanding, the requirement of unemployment and so on. It will take more than a lot to save a relationship failing to take i’ve been there. Now I know some ways that can help restore a failing relationship that will work, it forms the background to the latest high ultimate way I know. Understanding: Understanding is a way to restore a default relationship.But as easy as it sounds, it is the most difficult task accomplish.Why is it? let see. In a relationship is like to be that person who has never heard as he or she does not exist. Men feel like everything he says or does is just because they are men and they think they need to be still in charge because men are heard and women feel like they have need to be heard and their opinion counts a lot. If the two can not balance this, I see no hope for this relationship because after so many struggles resulting from misunderstandings they call the end. Stable finances: This is especially for men. It is important to have a stable finance, because a lot of bad things can happen due to financial difficulties. Even if your spouse choose to stay with you through troubled times, you can see that the default and before you know little things and talk about money leads to fight and as you know the relationship falls. But stable finances can restore a failing relationship in a measure before some other factors plans. Couple Counseling: This for a very long time is the last point of almost all couples before the final relationship fall.Here terminal are either restored or destroyed.Couple Council recorded a large amount of success over the years, but does not guarantee that the relationship will remain strong for long time.Studies show that most relationships recorded by the board experienced a positive change for up to 3-5 years before failing again and some even comes experienced no change. I’m not saying couples therapy does not work I simply say, it does not really guarantee a lasting relationship. D’Amour spell: For me, this is the only way that you and someone you love will always be, as they have promised you. My marriage had its largest penalty the board, understanding and all the things I wrote above, and the only thing that worked for me was the Ajayi Ololo fate did for me. It was the only help I seeked that actually worked for me which is why I say is the Ultimate.My friend who advised me to contact a spell caster remained married to her husband for ten years and some months now because of love Ajayi Ololo fate of her.I can not speak of my own because its just been two months .I you want to save your relationship Contact your roulette with this email ajayiololo @ (yahoo). com. Warning: use this email in the regular mail format

  • Vera Aniston

    I am another individual that Akpe Osilama awesome has reached. A lot of us have desired love, wealth, luck and all but it always a step too far to reach or the chance never come our way and then it all became a dream nothing more that just a dream. Akpe Osilama the greatest enchanter i have ever known because he is the only one i know helped transform my dream into reality he helped me with an enchantment that made the one that i love find his love for me after wait forever in love with him. We’ve been best friend even before we could speak , we played together got in trouble together made silly promises at least we kept it but one i could not keep one. I could not stay friends with him forever, i didn’t want to just be his friend i wanted more i wanted him to love just as loved him but he saw me as just a friend or he didn’t want to admit he was also in love with me because it was obvious we sync perfectly made the same gestures, always in each other arm we were like lover that don’t make love . I was always a step behind when it came to letting him know how and what i felt about him. I wanted him to be the one to tell to say to me that he loved me and has always did. I wish i didn’t wait for him i wish i told him maybe it wouldn’t have took so long to be with him in first place. Through out our high school and collage years he was the guy every girl wanted to date he was the guy every wanted to give up their v card for and all the while i was the best friend of the guy i was in love with the one he tell all the nasty things he’s been doing with them. As hard as it was for me i couldn’t complain because we weren’t dating even when i wanted it so bad. I always found myself wishing i was the girls on the other side. We shared everything about our life and even told each other thing we never told those we dated. I couldn’t keep a stable relationship with any guy they all thought we hang out too much each other and i care for him more. They all left because they knew i was in love with him even when i tried to hide it always surfaced. My love life was a total mess and at first, it was really not a big deal because i thought with each man that come into my life a part of what i felt for him will fade away but it wasn’t the case. I found myself not being about to love them enough or always comparing them with him that always led to the death of the relationship. I knew i had to let him know i was in love with him and i knew it was going ruin a our friendship and also his relationship. I hated myself because he was a nice guy but i wanted to know if i had a chance, if we loves me just as much as i loved him but he never told me he was too mad with me for what i did not until Akpe Osilama helped me unveil it. I kinda picked the worst time to let him know about my feeling because he was engaged and i made his fiancée call it off. And for two years we didn’t speak he told me he never wanted to see me again and that i was dead to him. I was once again alone with my feeling all my effort to restore what i broke was in vain. I was happy the wedding was called off but was not so much because i didn’t get him instead he hated me for what i did. I was really really confused i wanted to stop loving i needed to get him off my mind and over. I was on that quest when i found Akpe Osilama on the Internet read about his work with some people and how they all got their heart desire. I contacted him with this email chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast AT yahoo DOT com in the standard email form off course that they left on the Internet he told me the spirit had already told him that i was going to contact him. I only told him about how i was in love with him and what happened when i told him about my feelings but he knew we’ve best friends since we were kids that i did not tell him he reveal something only yust and i Knew yeah that is his name. Akpe Osilama told me that yust was always in love me like i loved him but he was unaware of his feeling. I asked him to help with with an enchantment that will make him love me and spend the rest of his life with me. All he used for the process was the materials he asked me to provide and after one day he sent a package via courier service which i paid for with content based on the enchantment he had done for me. I did not pay him anything for what he did for he did not ask me for anything. I followed the instruction i was given and just like told me yust was my to love again and i was his to love just like i wanted. Everything happened like the movie only that it was not like it. I mean he was in another state but he came down to let me know he now knew he was in love with and he wanted to love and just love me. It was the best moment of my life i never felt happier than how i felt that day. Just for the record we have being together for a year and two months now and still strong i can even sense a proposer it was one of the thing Akpe Osilama told me will happen.

  • Eliz

    In my case is the other way around my husband be talking over the phone in my presence to his sister about about another woman that he dated 20 some years ago, elaborating ever 6 times how beatiful from her appearance to her biography, I felt rather unconfortable so I quite got up and went to the kitchen. Minutes later he walk into the kitchen and asked me if I was alright I said yes meaning I wasn’t mad about over what I heard, then he ask me if I was uncomfortable about what he said over the girl he dated 20 years ago, I reply that it felt strange to me that he still can extensively elaborate on the girl, specifically if she was from his past, plus they didn’t last not even 2 months, but I didn’t argue but he in the other hand he to my reaction wrong even after I remain calm about the matter. I don’t get is like darn if you do of you don’t.

  • Happy Again

    Hhmmm….. But won’t a many worthy of respect get respect, under normal circumstances? My ex husband wouldn’t hang on to a job, wouldn’t stop slapping the kids, wouldn’t agree to a budget, no matter how much “time and space” i gave him. (If i asked for a discussion, he’d tell me i could have an “appointment” to talk to him, in about a month.) Seems like respect and honor will probably happen, given two people of good will, and basic confidence in human interaction.

  • Christy Ben

    I feel so grateful and only have words of testimonies about a powerful spell caster called Dr.Moon who helped me to bring my lover back within the space of 48hours. We had been apart for about 3 months, At first I never felt i was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, But i loved my lover so much that i won’t give him up for anything in this world. So i decided to contact Dr.Moon through his mail address i found on the internet and I told him about my situation, At first i taught Dr.Moon will not be able to bring my lover back until my lover called me and was so eager to have me after 48 hours that i contacted Dr.Moon. Now myself and my lover live together and he can’t spend an hour without me, I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to DR.Moon Spell, His spell was so fast and reliable. You can contact Dr.Moon on his e-mail if you really want your lover back on email: [email protected] Or call Dr.Moon mobile number on +2348152247947…

  • maryislove

    I am beginning to really be open to learn about how to communicate with men. I have been single for years now I long for a relationship again.I need to hear feedback from men on what they long for in a women ?(besides good sex). What does respect sound like and look like for a man? How can a women show respect when there is a disagreement or a difference of opinion? What threatens a man in his women?

  • Amanda Paul

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  • annoymous

    Thank you for sharing these comments. I have been dating a man for about 3 months, and he tells while he loves to be with me, I make him want to run away, and I have NO CLUE what he is talking about as I see him for a few hours each week… and the littlest things set him off.

    My friends think it is because I am strong and independent, and to some degree accomplished… which I would think would benefit him, but maybe it is the reverse.

    I felt when he talked about my car that needs to have a problem addressed and it was going to a shop that he was offended when I told him I had taken it in to the shop…

    I try to show respect and let him know he is needed, but at the same time, this is pretty new and I am more comfortable to not ask….. just take care of it myself. I feel like I walk on eggshells, and if he wants to walk….there is nothing I can do….. I did my best.

    • BJ_Foster

      I don’t know you or him and this is a limited amount of information, but there seem to be at least a couple of red flags here. You can’t keep walking on egg shells. I would have a serious and open conversation sooner rather than later about all of these issues.

    • ktownresident

      At three months you should be so in love that neither of you can do any wrong. If he is afraid of you then find someone who can handle you and appreciates your strengths like a real man would.

  • Emunah Ahv

    But what if the guy actually has a problem remembering things. Ive tried writing notes

  • Suzie Brewer

    Okay, I get that men need respect. I have some questions though. Driving around in circles makes him frustrated, he is getting mad and he will blame it on me. Giving him directions makes him mad and he will blame it on me. I cannot win. He can’t find sals in the fridge, so he pulls out the bottle of ketchup and puts it on his burrito. He is mad because there was no salsa. I tried to tell him it was already out, but he does not hear me. He is mad when he finds out I had it. He is just mad. I told him exactly where my daughter was getting married and that the rehearsal would be there also. He left to go to a totally different place. Mad at me. One night the girls pulled out left over rolls at dinner time. He says he wants me to do something that I cannot actually legally do, and I ask him to explain why he thinks this is necessary. Of course he can’t, but I just seriously disrespected him. I put gas in a car. There was no reason for me not to put gas in it. He had not told me not to put gas in it. I think he got more mad at me for that than almost anything I ever did. And I still do not have any idea why it was wrong. I asked what I had done wrong and all he said was that he acts the way he does because I expect him to act that way. I don’t understand why, after 26 years, I should still be the one who has to make things better. No matter what I do he gets mad. He can turn anything into a huge show of disrespect. If I forget milk and have to go back to the store. If he falls asleep in the living room- family space where we all are- and a baby cries and wakes him up. I would not dare nag, or even remind him of something he said he would do, unless he specifically asks.

  • S.L.

    Yeah… Showing deference for the sake of deference is foolish. 1 – this basically says a man is just a giant ball of sensitive emotion who can’t bear to be disagreed with because of his ego. These type of articles, telling women how they disrespect their men always key in on deference to the man’s opinion, to his leadership, to his judgment. Well guess what? Dude isn’t perfect just because he has a penis. Sometimes dude is wrong. Be grown, be man enough to handle when you’re incorrect without thinking that your significant other is out to disrespect you simply because she informed you that you were wrong. It happens both ways. Move on. You don’t see women getting upset when their men are telling them they are going the wrong way. You don’t see them keeping their mouths shut as their wives drive around in circles so that they can “prove” the trust they have in them. Looked at in reverse, these things would be ridiculous. I’m not going to make myself less so a man can feel better about himself. Sure, I’ll show deference to a man’s opinion – when I think he’s right. And I’ll sure as well respect that opinion if it’s reasonable and sell thought out, even if I disagree with it. But I won’t be deferring to it just for the sake of showing my deference. Gonna pass, thanks.

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  • akmediascope

    Not true that women want love more than respect unless THEY HAVE BEEN TAUGHT IT’S OKAY AND EXPECTED FOR WOMEN not to HAVE RESPECT.. These principles are agender. Mars & Venus is a crock

  • Emilija

    Respect is something that is earned and wifes need it just as much as husbands…

  • Carlo Dante

    Some guy has a Ph.D. in astrophysics and everyone calls him “doctor” and his students respect him and he is a big shot problem solver at work. So why does his wife think he is absentminded and has no management skills?