When my son was small, he would make the same bedtime request every night. “Mom,” he’d say. “Will you sit by me, lay with me, and hold me?” Then one night, he didn’t ask. “Do you want me to sit by you, lay with you, and hold you before I go?” I asked. “That’s okay, mom. Night.” And just like that, my little boy was on his way to becoming a young man. I never thought I could be an ideal “boy mom.” I just didn’t see myself as the rough and tumble, mom of boys type. It turns out, I love having a son. It’s been so intriguing to watch him grow, develop, and mature. Here’s what I’ve learned along the way.