I have tried to teach my children to have a good work ethic, though I haven’t always succeeded: witness the clothes thrown on the floor, the unfinished homework, and the dishes left on the couch in the family room. So I probably looked a little shocked when my teenage son’s boss told me that my son was a hard worker! Music to this mother’s ears.
Why do I want my kids to be hard workers and have a good work ethic? Kids who are hard workers have the ability to reach their full potential. Here are 6 ways to teach your kids a good work ethic.
Start with small chores for little ones and move up to more demanding responsibilities as they grow.
2. Don’t hire away all the tough jobs.
The trend in suburban America to hire housekeepers, yardmen, etc. may be robbing our kids of all the traditional opportunities to learn to work. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that the actual skills they’re using (cutting grass) won’t benefit them later (after all, he’s going to be a surgeon, right?). Learning to get up and do what needs doing, no matter what it is, is important to their future success.
Learning to get up and do what needs doing, no matter what it is, is important to their future success.
3. Treat their studies as a work ethic training ground.
Basically, school is your children’s job. It is an excellent environment for developing a work ethic that will serve them well later in life.
4. Let them suffer the consequences of failing to work hard.
The earlier you do this, the less painful and the more productive it will be. If the penalty for not doing your chores is not getting an allowance or not having friends over—don’t cave in. If the penalty for not turning your book report in on time is a bad grade, let them suffer the consequence.
5. Model a consistent work ethic in your own life.
No need to elaborate here because moms are always working hard! Know that your kids watch everything you do, including your work ethic. Here are 9 other areas they watch.
6. Treat having a work ethic as an element of character, which it is.
Having a strong work ethic makes a person trustworthy. Impress upon your kids that it’s important to be dependable in both their career and their relationships. A work ethic is very much an element of their character.
Tell us! In what ways have you taught your child good work ethic?