“It’s just easier to do it myself.”
Have you ever caught yourself saying this, mom? I know I have. When the house is a wreck and you know the little ones will never do it right—you assume the role of the martyr and just keep cleaning. But what’s the long-term cost of this strategy?
Refusing to give your children more responsibility forces you to do more than any one person can or should. It also deprives them of practical skills they need and the pride of a job well-done. Sure, the towels may not be folded in perfect 90-degree angles, but the pay-off for everyone far outweighs the imperfections. So consider how to get your children to be more helpful around the house with these age-appropriate chore ideas.
Refusing to give your children more responsibility forces you to do more than any one person can or should.
Getting diaper for self or new baby
Picking up small items from floor
Putting away toys
Pouring measured items into mixing bowl
Help weed the yard
Help with dusting
Put clothes away in their room
Fold napkins for dinner
Dusting lower shelves
Emptying small trash cans
Helping set the table
General straightening of rooms
Weed on their own
General folding laundry
Beginning cooking skills
Reading to younger siblings
Water the plants
Changing baby’s diapers
Yard work—raking, planting
Taking out trash
Babysitting for short periods
Yard work—edging, trimming
Cooking on their own
Household maintenance—painting, repairs
At this age, the child should be able to learn any housekeeping skill, as long as you are willing to teach him. Certain skills, such as ironing, mowing lawn, and babysitting for siblings depend on maturity level and/or family circumstances. Parents know best.
Used with permission of Barbara Curtis.
Tell us! What chores have you given your kids? How well have they worked?