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6 Ways to Make Your Husband Feel Like a Man

You know that feeling you get when you dress in something decidedly feminine and your husband does a double take? His response to your femininity makes you feel like you matter more than all the other women in the world and can get the butterflies fluttering again! Well, he gets the same charge when you recognize and appreciate his masculinity, notice his sex appeal, and say something about it. That’s just one idea for how to make your husband feel like a man.

It’s true that men and women are equal, but we sometimes forget the value of playing up what makes us different. When you treat your husband like a man, and he treats you like a woman, that thing that makes your relationship so special shines. You realize how well you complement one another and how that makes your marriage and family whole. Here’s how to make your husband feel like a man—and make your marriage even better.

1. Lean into your femininity.

We’re not talking about wearing a dress, although there’s probably one in the closet that he loves to see you in. There are attributes that are feminine in nature—nurturing, receptive, intuitive, and emotionally intelligent—that your husband probably loves about you. When you embrace those attributes, he might return the action with more masculine traits like protecting, giving, and confidence. Yes, these scream gender stereotypes, and it’s not uncommon for someone to show the other gender’s attributes. All should be encouraged, but leaning into those traits is a great way to bring out strengths in your partner.

2. Recognize his physical strength.

We know that not every guy is a jock or a powerlifter, but your husband probably likes to feel strong around you and the kids. Even if you can bench him, ask for his help now and then. Tell him you appreciate his strength and that it makes you feel protected (even if you know full well that should someone break into your house, you’d be the one to defend everyone). If you’re feeling extra flirty, give those biceps of his a squeeze and throw in a wink. He may roll his eyes, but he’ll love it.

3. Let him lead.

Yes, you stand side-by-side with your husband, but he is still hardwired to want to lead and protect. If there’s something he is an expert on and you have room to learn, ask him about it. Tell him you appreciate the things he knows and the skills he brings to the table in your marriage and family.

4. When he looks good, tell him!

Most of us have a favorite “look” of our husband’s. It might be his sharpest suit or his favorite jeans and a t-shirt. Whatever turns your head, let him know you love it.

5. Flirt.

We hear from our men friends all the time that they want their women to want them. We tend to be pretty good at communicating that we’re attracted when we’re dating or newly married—and then we forget how to flirt! It’s the gaze across the room, the pat on the butt, the side smile when he catches you looking at him. Nothing in the world will make your husband feel more like a man than knowing you still want him. Period. Check out these 41 Ways to Romance Your Husband for some inspiration!

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6. Teach your kids to admire him.

Point out to your children that Dad has traits that you really appreciate, and they should, too! Celebrate him in their presence and brag on his strength. He’ll love it, and the kids will too.

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